Pretty
religious. Bear with it.
My
house is so hot or maybe it’s the high temperature, I felt cozy only after
the shower and felt hot again right on the moment I put my clothes on. Feel
like not wearing any clothes! Just tank top with shorts. Okay, astaghfirullah
alazim. Shooh shooh the negative thoughts. Baby! Babies are cute ! Taraaa
Topic of the day
Is it wrong telling
others about our aurat to others?
That
situation made me think. If a muslim, like me for instant, who wears hijab, but
talks about those, is it a sin? Talk about what? Like, about my hair (how it
looks like) I like to wear shorts, smthg to do with my aurat, and I tell
others, eventhough indirectly. Is it a sin? I became doubtful. So I actually
google it, and guess what, this is what I found.
Hukum memberitahu ciri-ciri bahagian
aurat kepada yang bukan mahram adalah ditegah oleh syarak, maksudnya haram
hukumnya walaupun orang itu tidak melihat aurat tersebut, kerana dalam sebuah
hadis yang diriwayatkan oleh Ibn Mas'ud r.a., Rasulullah SAW ada bersabda yang
bermaksud: "Janganlah seorang perempuan bergaul dengan perempuan lain
kemudian menceritakan perihal perempuan lain itu kepada suaminya sehingga
seakan-akan suaminya itu melihat perempuan yang diceritakannya". (HR
al-Bukhari dan Muslim)
Imam Ibnu Kathir menyatakan di
dalam Tafsirnya mengenai Firman Allah Subhanahu wa Taala (au nisaa`ihinna),
maksudnya adalah, seorang wanita muslimah juga dibolehkan menampakkan
perhiasannya (auratnya) kepada wanita-wanita muslimah, namun tidak boleh kepada
ahlu zimmah (wanita-wanita kafir ahlu zimmah); agar wanita-wanita kafir itu
tidak menceritakan aurat wanita-wanita muslimah kepada suami-suami mereka.
Walaupun hal ini mesti dihindari (mahdzuuran) pada semua wanita, akan tetapi
kepada wanita ahlu zimmah lebih ditekankan lagi. Illah (sebab) batas aurat
wanita muslim dihadapan wanita bukan muslim sama seperti aurat perempuan dengan
lelaki bukan mahram adalah kerana wanita bukan muslim ini tidak boleh
dipercayai kerahsiaan mereka (dalam menjaga amanah). Ditakuti aib dan aurat
wanita muslim dihebah-hebahkan. Bagi wanita ahlu zimmah tidak ada larangan
mengenai masalah ini (menceritakan aurat wanita lain). Adapun untuk wanita
Muslimah, sesungguhnya, dia memahami bahawa hal ini (menceritakan aurat wanita
lain kepada suaminya) adalah haram. Oleh kerana itu, hendaknya dia menjaga diri
dari hal tersebut.
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So that was it.
This thing came up in my mind because I’ve seen some girls who wear hijab talks
about how their hair looks like, legs too skinny etcetera cetera on Facebook,
Twitter and other social networks. I know I’m being pretty random or old
fashioned, but as a girl who wears hijab myself, am trying to be a better
person, insya-Allah, and note to all the girls out there, especially my girls
(I love ya’ll, that’s why I’m telling you this) I want you to share it with you
guys.
Plus, this is what
I thought. If you actually tell others about your aurat, they would most likely
imagine it and c’mon, human’s imagination sometimes gets beyond from what you
expected especially when it comes to guys. Sorry guys, but it is fact yea. Say
if you tell ‘em bout your hair, how thick it is, how it looks like, they will
imagine it, and maybe not only imagine about your hair, but how you look like
when you’re out of the shower with wet hair etc, it’s a sin. Wrong thoughts.
I’m not a perfect
person. Far from perfection. Can never reach perfection. We, as human of course
commits sins with or without realizing it. Thus, to avoid from making more
sins, let’s try to reduce it while we still can, shall we?
Sorry if my words
are harsh or hurtful. Maybe you’ll say I did the same thing too, but that was
the past. Correct me if I’m wrong. Think of it. Peace ._.v
